Rock It Like Prince|Overcoming Fashion Fears

Strike a pose and have some fun!

Hey, y’all! Welcome to Sweet Sorghum Living–a place to sit a spell with a good cup of coffee (which today just so happens to be National Coffee Day–which I celebrate 365 days a year *wink*). So, grab a good cup of coffee (iced or hot or both), and let’s chat about fashion. Which is totally out of character for the blog. Mainly, because I hate–absolutely hate–my photo being taken. I don’t mind a silly selfie or a group photo where I am hidden in the back. But to be at the center of the photo–the camera staring at me–me trying to figure out what to do with my hands–my face. I absolutely do not smile with my teeth, and I have a really big, round head for someone who is only 5′. Bless! I am breaking out in hives just thinking about it.

My dad (better known as Paw Riley), me, and Abby (my daughter–who got her career started at 16 when she created and launched the Vintage Inspired Passionista blog).

Now, my dislike (hate really is a strong word that we should all remove from our vocabulary) of having my photo taken is genetic. I get it from my dad. He also has the round face and big nose–which we try to hide in photos by being silly. I am thankful my daughter did not get the awkward photo gene. I have also tried really hard to teach her to be confident in who she is and to express herself through fashion. That is easy preaching, but hard living.

Being silly is fun, but it also helps me cope with having my photo taken. I also like props–to hide my imperfections and insecurities.

Deep breath. Where was I? Oh, yes. Fashion and overcoming fashion fears. First of all, what are fashion fears? Anything you are afraid to wear–whether it is a particular color or trend, and it is anything you are self-conscious about wearing out in public. It is the clothes you see in magazines or on Pinterest that you really love, but you would never actually buy because you believe you are too short, too tall, too old, too chubby, too pale, too… to wear. It is the little voices inside your head telling you that if you wear those skinny jeans your muffin top will show or that blouse will announce to the world that your head is big and round. It is the outfit you put on in the dressing room–take off–and swear off food for life.

Fashion fears suck, and those voices inside our heads are mean. Now, it would take me days and days of blogging to explain why I say mean things to myself when I am standing in front of my dressing room mirror. But, today is more about overcoming one fashion fear at a time + about challenging all of you to face one of your fashion fears and to say one nice thing about yourself each morning (no negatives!!!!).

A big thank you to my daughter for taking time out of her crazy busy schedule to patiently take photos of me.

On this Try-Day Friday (which is a lovely idea from Dia & Co.), I am wearing a color I would not normally wear. I avoid this color because I am fair with blondish hair and green eyes. I always feel like it makes me look pink and draws attention to my rosacea. Deep breath. Trying to be positive and have the right attitude because that is what I learned from Dia & Co.

Now, without further ado, let’s take a look at the photos my daughter took of me facing my fashion fear of wearing burgundy (maroon, cordovan, or oxblood).

Simple pencil skirt dressed up with a pop of burgundy + boho accessories (necklace by BluKatDesign and bracelets my daughter made me for Mother’s Day).

To face my fashion fear of wearing burgundy even more, I tossed on a boho top in varying shades of burgundy and deep rust.

Oh, I almost never wear a “round” or crew neckline. Which means, I conquered TWO fashion fears on Try-Day Friday! #winning **p.s. do y’all spy the furbabies?**

I wore this outfit to a meeting I had on Thursday. So, technically, I tried one day early *wink* It was a fun outfit that really got me into the spirit of fall. *fingers crossed for cooler temps*

Just swinging with Mattie and owning who I am–a 40-something artist trying to find her way in this big world.

What I have learned from Prince, my dog Mattie, and Dia & Co.–express yourself, be positive, be bold, and have some fun. *cue Raspberry Beret*

Thanks so much for sitting a spell with me today as we chatted about overcoming our fashion fears. Also, thanks for being my therapist today as I muddled through some of my insecurities. I challenge all of you to Try-Day Friday and to #rockit like Prince by sharing your photos to my Facebook page or tag @ChasidyHathorn on Twitter|Instagram + tag @diaandco.

I will revisit this topic and challenge again because I think it is important to face our fears and to not be afraid to admit our insecurities. Together we can make this world a better place–but it starts with being kind to ourselves and forgiving ourselves for not being perfect. *cue Put a Little Love in Your Heart*


No, Mom. I do not want to give sugars.

Abby: Act Natural
Me: **Karate Kid**

Jazz Hands



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